If you have a partner or loved one who’s pregnant, you don’t have to wait for the baby to be born to celebrate Mother’s Day. While you’ll want to skip the sushi and fancy bottle of wine, we’re all in favor of celebrating pregnant moms-to-be on Mother’s Day. That could mean a sweet letter, a day of pampering, a romantic date night, or a thoughtful gift.
In a Reddit thread about gifts for pregnant moms-to-be, women wrote about the memorable gifts their partners gave them when they were pregnant. Some of the presents were practical, designed to alleviate some of the side effects of pregnancy — like a pregnancy pillow, a foot spa, or having her car cleaned because she couldn’t bend over easily. Some were swoonworthy, sentimental presents, like planting a rose bush in her honor, giving her a meaningful piece of jewelry, or creating a journal for documenting the pregnancy. And some were classic gifts that would work for any celebration, like a thoughtful card, a delicious dessert, and a bouquet of flowers.
Just keep your loved one’s preferences in mind. As one Redditor advised, "If she hasn’t outright said anything, listen to what she is saying. Is she avoiding touch? A massage might not be the best gift. Does she say her feet are tired at the end of the day? Spa pedicure. Complaining about pregnancy acne? A facial." Remember, if in doubt, you can always ask.
We’ve rounded up some products to give you gifting inspiration for the pregnant moms-to-be in your life.
Studies suggest that massage during pregnancy can help treat back pain, reduce anxiety, and improve mood and sleep. You can also book her a session with a professional masseuse — just check that they’re certified in prenatal massage.
JimmyJane Body Massage Stone, $25, available at The Bloomi
Sore feet are a common complaint during pregnancy — and a home foot spa could help relieve them.
Belmint Foot Bath Massager, $79.98, available at Amazon
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For the almost moms out there, there’s nothing more important than keeping loved ones in the loop. That’s why this year, Portal from Facebook is your go-to option for helping the expecting mothers in your life continue to stay close with friends and family. The sleek, smart video-chatting device with Alexa built-in is all she’ll need to stay in the loop — without leaving the house.
Facebook Portal From Facebook, $99, available at Facebook
Write a thoughtful note to your loved one on this special day.
Paper Source Mother’s Day Rainbow Letters Card, $3.95, available at Paper Source
Pregnant moms-to-be often have difficulty sleeping, especially during the third trimester. A pregnancy pillow can help her get comfortable and get some rest.
Marine Moon Pregnancy Pillow, $39.99, available at Amazon
A maternity robe that will cover her bump throughout her third trimester — and be adjustable so she can still wear it after giving birth — is a practical present.
Baby Be Mine Maternity Nursing Robe , $39.99, available at Amazon
Turn your baby’s heartbeat into a striking piece of jewelry for a one-of-a-kind gift.
Grace Personalized Baby EKG Heartbeat Necklace, $37.6, available at Etsy
She may have to skip the cocktails during pregnancy, but how about mixing her a mocktail so she’s drinking something a little fancier than seltzer water?
Weldon Owen Mocktails by Caroline Hwang, $15.31, available at Amazon
A sweet piece of mom-themed jewelry is a nice way to commemorate the day.
Pink Chemistry Mommy Necklace , $25, available at Etsy
These allergen-free, glycerin-free, organic bath salts were designed to promote relaxation — with input from a doula, so you know they’re good.
JD Bath Co. Relax, bb Bath Salt, $12, available at The Bloomi
A beautiful bouquet is a classic Mother’s Day gift for a reason!
The Mini Rose Co. Secret Garden, $150, available at Floom
Treat your favorite mom-to-be with a pair of luxurious cashmere socks.
HATCH the cashmere sock bundle, $74, available at HATCH
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